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PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

HUMAN RELATIONS | Manners & You | Table Manners

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To boost your self image with optimism by possessing special qualities that inspire respect, admiration, confidence to impress those around you is like holding a MASTER CREDIT CARD to win hearts and lead road ahead to achieve peace, prosperity and above all, a positive personality YOU. Getting alongwith people is very important in today’s modernity and as a matter of fact, pleasing personality, patience, tolerance, appreciation, tact, efficiency, literacy, awareness, etc. are the major factors that play a key role for a future vision for success. Some can turn an acquaintance to a strong bond of friendship, while some refrain from any kind of relation. It depends individually on nature and lifestyle, however, it is very true that certain qualities in You is your Personality. In day to day life, we have to perform a hundred chores right from the duty to talking, eating, meeting friends, people at work place, meeting strangers, in solitude and so on. The way one think, reacts, speaks, behaves and copes up is more important for a thorough You. However, an impressive personality can be briefly summed up which play a basic role to make a special You.

WB01575_1.gif (252 bytes) Pleasing Personality: Be kind, loving, caring, thoughtful, sympathetic, positive to project self image with confidence and firm in decision. A sunny nature with cheery heart leaves no room for gloom on one’s face. Your attitude, etiquette and manners project your innerself and win many hearts. Neat, clean, well dressed with maintained physique makes you confident, sure result oriented person. Cool disposition with maturity and sensitivity adds to charm and beauty in making an impressive personality .These qualities make you a different person - a cut above the others. Positive qualities once imbibed will inevitably become a part of one’s nature.

WB01575_1.gif (252 bytes) Cultivate a Smile: Be friendly and happy. A smile is the longest word in the world with a mile between the first and the last letter. The smile is the shortest distance between two people. People are more responsive to good humoured person. A smile tension, eases pain, leaves behind troubles. It enriches those who receive, create happiness in homes, foster goodwill and business and is the countersign of friends. A smile reflects genuineness, a curved line that straighten up things right. It invites friendship, affection, confidence and encourages the disheartened. A bubbling smile from the heart drives away hovering dark shadows to coax the sun again to brighten up the path to reach the goals.

WB01575_1.gif (252 bytes) Give Honest Appreciation & Avoid Criticism: Appreciation is demanding to encourage enthusiasm in an individual. Every human craves for appreciation to develop his personality and possess the superior complex with lavish praise.Sincere appreciation and flattery are two different actions altogether. Appreciation means complimenting heartily to make a person feel important and rise his spirits whereas flattery is lame which a well aware person’s heart fills with malishness, egoism and harsh reality puts either of the two involved in bitterness. Hence, appreciation with heart makes all the difference. Criticism in turn, wounds hearts, arises inferiority, discourages a person and leaves scars of despair. Tact should be implied instead of Criticism and all sarcastic remarks should be avoided to forego grudge.

WB01575_1.gif (252 bytes) Tact: This is securely favouring position to make a person friendly. Avoid being irritated but firmly and kindly speak your say without entering into an argument. Be optimistic in views and avoid negative impacts of words.

WB01575_1.gif (252 bytes) Voice Modulation: A person’s voice reflects his personality. The way one feels,behaves, moods, attitudes are reflected through his voice. Soft, pleasant, husky voice with low pitch, not harsh, dull or lifeless, but bold, confident, clear, well pronounce play a vital role in self reflection. Mirror practice proves to be beneficial for better pronunciation and also find yourself in a corner of a room and repeat your name often till you find your voice clear, soft, but audible. Avoid shouting on top of your voice and check yourself with spicy food habits

WB01575_1.gif (252 bytes) Correct Posture: Stand erect with an authority with lifted face, chin forward and upward, face alert, shoulders straightened without standing stiff. Hand should not show signs of consciousness but either with fists closed, not clenched or easy with hands folded or at the back with slight one foot forward. Balanced in a natural looking way Tummy should be in and not get distracted and have presence of mind by avoiding all ways like scratching your nose, jingling keys or coins in pocket, rocking back & forth on your heels etc. Walk should be graceful with proper strides, easy, feet moving parallel to each other with arms swinging and shoulders relaxed. Palm should be towards the body. Sit erect with hands on your legs, with neat curves of your dress falling at your knees or feet together in a managed way.

WB01575_1.gif (252 bytes) Be an Interesting Person : Be zestful in life and enjoy thoroughly. Be creative, pour new ideas and fill your life with Interest, hobbies, ambitions, exhibit your talents. Develop your tastes, your positive approach. Imbibe the habits of reading, music, creativity, walking, socializing and workoholism. This will widen your visions, improve on personal efficiency, concentration, power of observation, optimistic and make you a lively person. Personality will widen your horizons with Happiness and is really the ability to strike a balance between an individual Lifestyle and art of living.

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