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Bullying has just become
of the most underrated but enduring problems today. Kids & Teenagers use
the mobiles and the net and because there's the whole world of fun using
these gadgets. It's the need of the hour to stop the Bully Panic.
Especially Mobile Bully. I have mentioned of
Bullying (an article from my book 'Guardian of
Angels) and even blogged about
Mobile Manners.
However, the issue
surfaces concerns once again as a recent study by the Pew Internet
Research Center states that 72% of cellphone owners ages 12 to 17 are
texters while only 18% of cellphone owners ages 40 to 49 are texters.
Moreover, for tweens and teens, cellphones are the perfect tool
for being constantly connected to the friends and others. As a result,
texting use has drastically increased. It is noted by Nielsen Mobile
that three years ago a teen sent and received an average of 435 texts
per month. As of late 2009 that total jumped to 3,186 texts. Social
networking has made it easier for exchange of phone numbers and
predators who seek close contacts with kids have found their prey.
Cyberbullying, psychological harassment in text or instant messaging, is
more often perpetrated by girls, who initiate inappropriate messages or
spread damaging gossip. The Pew Internet & American Life Project found
that 39 percent of cell users ages 18-29 say they are not always
truthful about where they are when they are on the phone. Many parents
find it shocking when the bill knocks the door due to texting (text,
picture and video messaging), special ring tones, downloading games and
even chatting for long hours. An alarming case is reported at
Forbes - A 15 year old boy communicating to a 30 year old woman whom
he met while playing multi game of World of War Craft.
Cell phones have become a serious
cause for lack of concentration, distraction, anxiety, fear and misuse
among many school going children. Moreover, the common features of
cameras, ipod music, games and video are temptations for use and misuse.
The silent mode has easy texting anywhere.
Mobile manners are almost being missed out by not only children who
use it but also parents and teachers who fail to keep a check on their
attitude and courtesy mannerisms. Fiddling with the mobile, texting or
playing games is often a sign of bad manners when you are with others -
socialising, in a meeting or with a guest. Kids who are often tempted
with their parent's mobile, are found to be bad mannered. Many teenagers
opt for talking or texting even in front of guests which embarrass the
parents.
Though schools like CBSE and other
schools are opting for ban of using
mobiles when in school campus, it is the need of the hour to safeguard
children from Mobile Bullying and even protect them from the Health
hazards.
An Austria Dr. Eric Huber calls for the potential
dangers in kids using mobiles and calls for Mobile companies carrying
labels showing Radiation levels. It is recommended, children below 16
years should not use mobiles. Brain tumour could be extreme case with
vision problems too. However, this would not stop children from using
nor will the parents want the children to be away from the latest
technology and gadgets that surround our world.
As Dr. Michael Rich, Director of the
Center on Media and Child Health
at
Harvard University believes, We have basically let kids be in an
environment where they have free rein but don't have the brain
development to manage that in ways that are safe and healthy.
The child should know, it's a use of mobile phone only in time of
special/urgent needs only. Best is no mobile till the age of 16 and don't let them get attracted
for the fancy picks. All things come for a value. Children need to
understand this and not keep changing the gadgets that keep freaking in
the market.
Some things children using mobiles should know:
1. Protect the mobile numbers. The child should not give the number to
everyone. Do not let others see the number too.
2. The child should not respond to unwanted SMS or call back to
strangers who sms or ring up.
3. The child should not give any information to any caller unless he/she
knows the person well.
4. Set rules and responsibilities. Don't let your call go unanswerable
from the child.
5. Strictly make the children turn off their phones at night when they
are in their rooms.
6. Teach them value for money. Provide the mobile that best utility for
them keeping in mind the cost factor. Do not pamper them and allow them to
frequently change their gadgets too.
7. Why Cell Phone - Explain the use and why they are equipped with such
gadgets.
Give kids their free reins but Limit the use of the
Gadget. Teach them to use and make them understand the right and the
wrong. There's no denying that we live in a dangerous world and that
children are overwhelmingly important. A day when our mobiles go off
even for a while, we are used to adjust but the next generation is out
with the newer technology and its safety more a concern for them right
now. Protect kids from the dangers using mobiles.
-More on Bullying.
- ilaxi patel
Editor, Kidsfreesouls.com
Author of Guardian
of Angels: A practical guide to Joyful Parenting
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Recently I read, Honda Motor Co.'s
Asimo,
the robot teacher called Saya, was introduced to
students in South Korea. They took English, Maths, science
and Arts classes in the Elementary schools. Saya can express
six basic emotions — surprise, fear, disgust, anger,
happiness, sadness — because its rubber skin is being pulled
from the back with motors and wiring around the eyes and the
mouth. And, amazingly, students reacted favorably to
the new teacher who seemed to be less sarcastic but more
responding and courteous in the class. Saya can call out
names, say 'Thank You' and even give orders like 'Be quiet.'
Saya's creator Professor Hiroshi Kobayashi said the robot's
main purpose was to highlight the joys of technology to
children, he also said it would benefit schools suffering
from a shortage of human teachers. The South Korean
government is investing in millions and aims to have 8000
robot teachers and assistant teachers in classrooms by 2013.
This incarnation of a School teacher
gives an insight of the teacher - student relationship today
which has made this new age teacher an option to be
considered as the fun part of learning and understanding
technology that replace human efforts. However, I really
can't figure out how can a robot handle a class of 40-60 or
even 20 students? The Robots are programmed and have no
thinking of their own! How could there be discipline in the
classroom or interaction thereby for the lessons
mechanically taught?
Children love the tender loving care,
a human touch and a smile that makes their day. Teachers not
only teach but also act as mentors who motivates and
encourages children in various aspects as they help them
gain academic excellence. Moreover, Robots are programmed
and no further can they continue to provide fun and learn to
children if they keep on focused on same lessons and same
songs with no updates. Robots can be supportive to teachers
but not substitute.
Even Teachers who teach like a Robot
mechanically with the same old style of imparting education
find less responsive students. Creative innovations to make
lessons interesting is their efficiency plus in boosting
their own teaching techniques. Character building of the
students is enhanced as mere seeing and listening is not the
factor but even understanding the Instructions is important.
Knowledge involves human interaction. Thought Robots in
classrooms can be fun and supportive to teaching, I think,
more emphasis rely on interactions - communication and
interpersonal relationship bonding the teacher and the
student as they experience the joys of teaching and learning
together.
It is most important for a parent or a
teacher to provide opportunities for Development Schedules.
Development schedules are just the tools to assist parents
in determining the child’s development, learning the little
things in life to take big steps to climb ahead. Some
children
are slow branded whereas some are fast learners. Children
possess different skills as per their development schedules.
Programmed Robots need better programming to enhance child's
development schedule and this would not be possible unless
Teachers follow the program patterns based on individual
student.
Even Parents need
child assessment with the development schedules as it plays
a major role as
their IQ, EQ and SQ
(Intelligence Quotient, Emotional Quotient, Spiritual
Quotient) which becomes
measured expression of child's abilities.
Some tips for Development schedules Teachers/parents can
follow are:
Creative skills
: Children love creativity. Make
lessons interesting with Projects in classrooms. Support
colors and sing along sessions while they attend Projects,
paper cutting, sticker pasting in Scrap book is often fun
for them. Let them draw, color or watch a cartoon online and
let them jot down their noting. Anything creative is fun and
learn.
Cognitive skills : Children
gain cognitive skills or say, reasoning with own mind as
they in the middle years of their development stage, they
have the capacity to distinguish what is right and wrong.
They can reason others point of view, play games as per the
rules and master their minds with subjects they like the
most.
Communication skills :
Speech comes with thought process. Conduct chatting
sessions, verbal compositions, debate or ask questions and
just questions to get back replies. Follow the language they
are learning and not the mother tongue as often children
speak their home language and can express better.
Linguistic skills : Develop
love for language. Anything to do with vocabulary and words.
Scrabble games, word search, cross words and even Vocabulary
Projects are found interesting by children and they love to
pursue these activities.
Logical Thinking :
Kids at a tender age love
to count and are good at math. They have an understanding of
logical or numerical patterns and sequence of reasoning.
These kids tend to adapt to activities related to science,
puzzles, exploring and all that has logical reasoning.
Spatial Intelligence :
Remembering roads, reading maps or knowing charts and
reading graphs. All that requires to level up their
intelligence.
Empathy skills : Understanding other children in classroom,
cooperate, share and avoiding conflicts with peace power.
It's like 'walk in someone's shoes' or 'see through their
eyes.'
Self Learning/understanding
: Children love to lean on a
shoulder. Encourage them to self learn by providing
necessary guidelines and allow them to use their own brains.
Mugging champions often fail to perform when they need to
understand on their own.
Children can grow and flower to progress in a free
atmosphere. Harmony in classroom and love for nature are
also major factors that contribute favorably.
Technology has its own charming ways but Teacher follow up
creates great genius!
Recently,
I come across my ex-students who have been young children
when they came to the Library, tip-toeing with hopes of
making their own identity someday. Today, I see them
pursuing their goals that gives me immense pleasure to
recognize their abilities and capabilities that turn them to
be successful in their chosen field.
Sometimes, as teachers, we under-estimate our children and
are quite skeptical as to their future looking to their
childhood academic progress. How wrong we could be! We all
know, some kids are sharper and some weaker in certain
areas, some children are fast learners and some slow - all
where academic skills are concerned. However, when
creativity gives a way, some children turn to be the best in
the exclusive skills they possess and it is sure to admit
'Practice makes a man perfect' - be it arts of sports or
even academic area like writing a poetry or maybe literature
savvy. This gives a special mention of a child who was no
good in academic, needed a push for good handwriting and
needed special attention for reading and grammar skills.
Speech skills was almost missing as he was more used to his
mother tongue. As years rolled by, Teacher-Parental role
played their part and I was much happy to see tremendous
change in him at the Library. More happier now, because he's
the one who makes me proud as he honed his Sports Skills.
His love for Sports makes me feel on 'Cloud Nine' as he has
turned to be the Best Skater and won laurels skating his way
to glory. While talking to him, he revealed his daily
routine which gave me an idea of his determination towards
the sport. Fitness is a way of life as he begins his day
early in the morning, cycling and gym exercise followed by
routine skating practices of minimum 2 to 3 hours.
Sometimes, he wins and even loses to competitors but its a
sports spirit and game all the way he loves to play.
Well, I would like to
share a counselling question once a parent asked me by email
: "My 7 year old just participated his school's field day and didn't fare too well - but he
sure tried. Hence, he went and kicked the school building and threw away his participating
ribbons and moped around for the rest of the day. How do I sympathetically but firmly
approach this?"
The answer is as below
and I am sure, might help many parents and teachers to help
children face defeat in a positive manner:
Competitions do not mean winning or
standing first or in order. It gives opportunity to experience and find way out from
losing to winning edge. Let the kid learn from experience so as not to let this
frustration flick back again. Everyone likes to win but most of, its good you are
enjoying and having fun should be the attitude that keeps the child hooked to the
Sport. Participating in the School field day itself helps to build confidence but if luck
do not favor or for some reason, the child fails, his willingness to accept defeat is on
back seat. Why me? Why I lost? And this frustration plays the role of your child's mental
process. Feelings of hopelessness and guilt has taken roots within his brain cells and he
seems to be hurt to extent that makes him fling things, be destructive, have a sense of
withdrawal from people and hve unreasonable fears or phobias that he is a failure and
cannot accept defeat under any circumstances.
In such situations, I feel that a parental
/ teacher's attitude towards the child can pull him out of his hurt feelings and face
defeat in a positive manner:
Parental calm and positive influence play a major role. Kids
need to be treated with respect and love, with no ridiculing, sarcastic remarks or let
downs. Expectations may be towards winning way but sports should be sharp one
Attitude with lots of entertainment and humor. Show him the love and say soothing words
"Yeah, sure you tried your best but anyways, there's always another chance. All
cannot win, after all"
Talking Therapy works wonders. Divert the mind from game play and indulge
in interesting talks or stories. The child memory is too short lived and his resentment
can be turned into a lively kid by talking to him about all he likes and is interested in.
Check the mood blues by adding in creativity. The inflated self esteem
needs to be worn back again. The higher children's self esteem, the better able they are
to cope with the ups and downs of life. The more self esteem the child develops, the more
secure they are in confronting obstacles, fears and defeats. Kids with low self esteem see
problems as grounds for quitting and often say "I quit or I give up" and flair.
Instead of comparing their achievements with their own goals and potential, they compare
themselves with others and get frustrated.
Let the kid develop sense of being optimistic. There is always another day
to win instead of feeling 'I Lost' Give your own example and recollect your own childhood
days. Narrate a few of your ups n downs, twists n turns and talk to the kid, how you faced
odd situations and embarrassments.
Failure is never final, success is never ending - Build Sports spirit in
the child and teach him the first steps to face challenges in life. Defeat is only a
challenge. Talk to the kid to build a positive sense of identity. Who I am? Why I failed?
Is my attitude okay? And the realization comes through when the child is helped to
understand own self, own weak points. He should be disciplined to know and act what is
right - what is wrong behavior. This self realization makes the kid a well balanced mind
and disciplined in his behavior during times of his frustration.
Make the child more tolerant. The kids who learn to cope with bad times
and its this time when values of tolerance is more necessary for them to divert their
minds to shrug off the hatred from the heart. An emotional trauma needs much more care than
a broken bone. Talk to the kid with love and care. Treat him nice instead of being angry
or saying harsh words. Words break the heart more, so let not the parental
anxiety/anxiousness add fuel to fire and keep the cool, calm n composed self to turn the
situation normal. Time heals.
Some kids tend to be aggressive and always
be the winner. It is during these times Sports Spirits instill the faith, courage,
loyalty, tolerance, brotherhood, all natural virtues which prepare to support in difficult
situations without weaknesses. Anger, frustration, self pity, all the so called negative
emotions generally have a bad effect on performances, after all.
( Suggested Reading : Honing skills - Whiff of sports-An
article from my book 'Guardian of Angels)
I guess, we all need to
keep the Sports Spirit live even when we see our favorite Soccer team
winning or losing the game! And, cross the fingers, I think, Germany will
score over 3-1 over Spain in the semi finals Soccer today as they have been
the most impressive team in South Africa.
Ever though of teaching
Cartoons in Classrooms?
Especially in an Indian environment where children hardly
would be interested in Political cartoons. So, what about
learning on Educational Cartoons? Or just about using
cartoons to analyze critical thinking activities and know
about current affairs. As I hear,
Digital Whiteboards are paving its way in classrooms, it
is far way thought to introduce activities that power the
brain and flow juices of educational creativity to enhance
learning abilities.
Teachers and parents tend to ignore
Cartoons while reading print newspapers and hardly encourage
children to read the cartoon captions. I have held a class
on 'Cartoon Learning' and got an amazing response with the
'Cartoon Project.' I have used the Cartoons as Critical
thinking skill as well as a creative writing skills. I copy
the cartoons to the power point slides and students
visualize and discuss on the same. This focus on awareness,
knowing the current happening topics and even act as
Discussion starters and writing prompts.
Follow these tips while showing the
cartoons:
1. What is the purpose?
2. What message it try to convey?
3. Debate on the topic
4.
Paste cartoon clips in their scrap
5.
Let them jot down the notings
6. Let the children communicate their ideas through art
7. Find opinions and reactions
As primary school children are not
easy with political cartoons, I have tried using Educational
cartoons, humor and focused on their favorite comic
characters. One being Popeye and the other Archie, Betty,
Jug head and Veronica. Children have fun reading the comic
books and love to create their own cartoon clip writing
their own creative message. Themes like 'Go Green' (Popeye
and the sea) and 'No junk food' (Jug head eating junk) with
their own remarks as they paste the characters in their
'Scrap books or call it, Spark Spiral Note books.' Kids love
to use the word balloons in various shapes and even use
stickers in case they are not good in drawing or in the mood
to do so. Giving a free hand in learning is sometimes a
blessing as we get willingness to participate and the
results are even better.
Btw, the only one Political Cartoon
that kids loved in my classroom was on the
CM Narendra Modi as
they've been great fan of this leader.
They were keen to observe the message
of the Cartoonist on him! In Political Cartoons, children
need to be interested and even know the characters. And for
this, it is first important to
Teach kids about Politics and elections !
Well, explore the Literature Cartoons
esp. Shakespeare characters
here on Harp Week. It provides a revealing glimpse
into the nineteenth-century world of Thomas Nast and
Harper’s Weekly, and the influence that William Shakespeare
had on it.
Also explore Popeye Cartoon Video and
find the Lyrics - You can use this for classroom activity
for Cartoon Project. Also find Dan Rosandich's Educational
Cartoon and come back again to find a new one for a change.
Stay tuned to Cartoon Kids
Resources for more and follow other
Resources page too.
Kidsfreesouls 'India Today-Simply Gujarati' Coverage
Soul Curry for Kids : An online
Portal for children that even includes information on Poetry-Did
you know about this Worldwide Hit? says Jhumri Nigam Misra in
Simply Gujarati, India Today (Issue on stands - 28th June, 2010)
As she further adds, "Call her the Pied Piper with a modern twist"
- It sure gives a feeling of joy to continue my journey at
Swagat Children Library and at
Kidsfreesouls - spreading the message of love, faith, peace and
unity among human beings. Being an explorer on web, life is and
endless journey with 'No Stop' Destination. Presenting
Kidsfreesouls and running a successful Children's Library, life
becomes a full circle and sometimes blowing own trumpet do give a
sense of pride! Enjoy my
Press Pages
here and of course, being an Editor for
an online newspaper and
Official Blogger and VA to the
Editor of The Sunday Guardian, stay tuned to my world of
Journalism.
Click to
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World Music Day -
21st June
Music is speech of
angels, a universal language of mankind. In music, one must think with the heart and feel
with the brain and so, after every silence that which comes nearest to expressing the
inexpressible is music! Thats when you
dream and your every dream precedes the goal! Its like dancing away your blues to reach
high for stars that lie hidden in your soul and this is when the heart and mind perform in
harmony after all!
- Songs for children
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Music
Reviews
Schools begin and
children are back to routines. Back to school is a
celebration time for children as the long summer creativity
calls in for a routine change and kids love to be with their
school friends. Some old, some new but nevertheless,
learning lessons and having fun too.
It is important
for a parent to build a bridge of communication with the
teacher as most of the hours, the teacher helps the child to
learn and grow. The child needs not only the love and
affection from parents and teachers but also need to
set their goals
and fulfill them.
One thing really important for a child
is Making connections.
Children do make friends on their own
but yet, a parental guiding help can add to his positive
friendship :
1. Help the child to be friendly.
Simply listening or talking, sharing and appreciating the
other and even sharing alikeness - for a video game or a
even an activity in class.
2. Help the child to compete
- In the sense, master the skills the others have and
admire. Be it playing a keyboard or guitar, playing sports
or arts.
3. Avoid being negative and
impulsive. Listen to the child on what he has to
say of his friends rather than stop him and showing your
distaste of his friend. He may strong feel of his friend
that you don't, maybe.
4. Help the child to solve
conflicts. Social skills are necessary as they
can learn to settle themselves at times of disputes with
others.
5. Don't involve in small arguments
of children. If they go physical, take your stand. Let the
kids work out on their own.
6. Let the kids practice
co-operation and understand feelings of others.
7. Help the kids to share,
care and be kind and gentle with friends.
8. Know your child's friends.
Invite them for play, birthday celebration
As for the
teachers, it's the first few days to be like the acronym,
"KISS" - Keep it Simple Stupid!
Teachers can adopt innovative ideas at
the start of the school and make learning fun. Encourage
reading habits on daily basis in the classroom and even at
home. Even follow up with a para handwriting practice
everyday. This will help weaker children to learn faster.
Above all, routinely writing book reviews per week and
making journals. Encourage them to write simple jot downs
and you can make Kids Blogs
with
Google sites - a sure fire-way to
lift up the spirit of the children.
Teachers can write 'welcome letters to
children' and invite parents to describe their child by
simply letting them jot down on 'Child Development Review' -
some points to fill as below:
1. Describe your child
2. What are your child's strengths
3. What are his hobbies - What he has been doing lately?
4. Does your child have any special problem or disability?
Mention.
5. What concerns you have about your child?
6. What other activities does he attend apart from school?
7. Mention what improvement you require in your child.
This will give an insight to know the
child, about their learning abilities and methods to adopt
while dealing with children. Some kids are fast learners
whereas some are branded as slow snail learners. What is
required is to identify their weaker areas and diagnose
their learning disabilities to apply strategies to combat
difficulties.
More, it's to be friendly with kids. Keep the communication
live and keep the perfect 'Discipline' in own self as well
as the Class.
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Making connections
Values
count and they do, especially when a couple is on the verge
of a broken relationship and an almost ruined married life!
When the vows are taken, it’s always the
sun and the moon and the stars but a couple of days,
months and years roll down to realize the stars always are
shining in the sky and to reach there, a lot efforts take to
check those difference of opinions and emotional outbursts.
Sacrifices and its
from either side. Couples often forget the small yet big meaning of
life – to be together is adjusting, forbearing differences and
sacrificing. Family bonds come with love and couples leave behind
their influence and impressions to their children.
Parenting role plays an important part in
lives of kids. Children are dependent on parents for their every need
and as they grow up, it is fondness and security that calls for from
parents.
Times
have changed and this day, we find 'Divorces' on a rise. Crash boom
goes the wows broken to head for a divorce! - Stop, Think, Compromise,
Adjust - for Kids' sake, parents need to Grow Up and manage their
responsibilities gracefully. Divorce is no solution. It affects both
the partners emotionally, economically and socially. It becomes
complex for a single parent to appropriately care for the child. It
gives an uncomfortable feeling socially as in social context, it is
considered a caste out deed and unacceptable attitude with taken as
granted that the couples are both at fault possessing qualities of ego
and intolerance. Children could equally experience a feeling of anger
and isolation if they are at an understanding age and for those who
are very young, the realization at a later age is embarrassing.
Every thing in life happens for a cause. Even a
Divorce. Before taking an action, every parent should,
‘Stop, think and act’ –
Confronting situations is a pain but binding by
law and taking decision is more stressful. Separation is risky and
should be taken seriously. It is not a game where you can play with
your own self as well as with the children. It is Stress in
relationships that break the family bonds. Nothing ever should be
compromised that keeping relationships intact because it is said,
‘Marriages are build in Heaven’ and who are you to break it?
Nevertheless, it is the freedom and emotions that rule the minds and
more important is ‘Self Esteem’ – to value self and to be self
accepting.
In India, as per the Hindu Act 1955, marriages
broken can be due to the grounds of adultery, desertion, cruelty,
conversion, mental disorder, diseases, renunciation, etc. However,
lately family disturbances are on a rise and as a result, a joint
family is not an acceptable idea to many which ends up to break in
relationships. This trend of ‘staying alone, staying happy’ is
somewhat a shift in family lifestyle which lived under one roof, in
unity with joint families where the parents, grandparents, children
and grand children lived together in earlier times. These joint
families are almost breaking as members of the family are getting
separated – some or the other reason and those couples who are more
modern and living on edge, find it inconvenient to adjust and
sacrifice – for the sake of the family, for the sake of kids.
Intolerance is on back seat as ego surfaces with stressful situations
from all sides creating an environment of breaking bonds. Suffering
comes from all ends and if you ask people around you ‘What
do you worry about?” In comes the
answer:
80% -
worry about family
75% -
worry about relationships
60% -
worry about health
50% -
worry about small things
50% -
worry about What if…..
There
are people around in India when surveyed upon said:
80% -
worry about money
85% -
worry about keeping relationship intact
75% -
worry about losing self respect
Loss
of a dear one, health concerns, careers, etc are many other worries
that Indian people worry about. However, 75% people worry about
relationships – To make or to keep intact or stop from breaking!!!
Well,
here’s answer to Stop Worrying and stop – think – save Relationships.
Stop taking the drastic step of the most unwanted word ‘Divorce’
because it can never bring in happiness but add to the stress and
worries. Instead, it is more wise to compromise, adjust, let go,
forgive and forget. Relationships are Hard but Ego is harder. The ego
has to be trained to dissociate itself from whatever ideas of
attachment come into the mind. Discovery of self is important and
once, either of the couple understand their ego and shrugg off to
accept self and remove negativity from within, there comes
understanding – accepting each other as they are and improve upon
their mistakes, believe in each other and live happily.
A few
tips with identified Emotional Intelligence facets might help all :
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Optimism : Consider what is
positive and right – be optimistic
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Assertiveness : Saying what one
thinks. Confront – telling what your wants. Exercise power and
opening up. Sometimes silence don’t speak words, it makes one
suffer.
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Emotional energy: cope with
frustration, anger, conflict or pressure. This emotional energy need
to be charged.
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Self esteem: Value self and be
self accepting.
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Courage : Face challenging
situation and take action that is right
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Self Direction : Make decisions,
set goals. Keep family alive.
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Tolerance : Be tolerant,
patient, accepting and cooperating – This is a major part where
people fail and relationships go haywire
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Consideration for others : This
is being considerate, helpful, being honest and responsible. Most of
the time, when responsibilities are overlooked, ego issues pop in
and distances are broadened.
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Sociability : Enjoying company
of all. If isolation finds way, frustrations, stress pave in way to
break up souls, for sure.
International Family day and all I could think was writing on Family
and relationship. So, here I hope this post article might give an
insight to stop the Family from Pressure – the involvement is whole
family – Parents, grandparents, couple and even people around them.
After all, who loves broken marriages?
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future is bright. They are the ones who reflect the health of a nation.
Obesity is a major issue today and as we see around, more obese kids with
more junks and moms need to plan meals. Prevention is better than
cure.....(Follow the Resources till I Blog more on this...)
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April 23 we
recall Shakespeare Literature as we observe World Book
and
Copyright Day. This day, Unesco seeks to promote reading,
publishing and the protection of intellectual property through
copyright. On 23rd April, great personalities, Cervantes,
Shakespeare and Inca Garcilaso de la Vega all died. It is also the
date of birth or death of other prominent authors such as Maurice
Druon, K.Laxness, Vladimir Nabokov, Josep Pla and Manuel Mejía
Vallejo. The idea for this celebration originated in Catalonia
where on 23 April, Saint George's Day, a rose is traditionally
given as a gift for each book sold.
Shakespeare occupies a
unique position in world literature. His works include 37 plays,
including comedy, Tragedy and Historical along with Poems,
sonnets. Shakespeare is astonishingly clever with words and
images, so that his mental energy, when applied to intelligible
human situations, finds full and memorable expression, convincing
and imaginatively stimulating and to read his stuff is a rich
experience for a life time. It has ever been great to read 'Romeo
& Juliet', Hamlet, Midsummer Night's dream, Tempest, As you Like
It, Merchant of Venice, King Lear and all the stuff that we taught
in Literature Lessons at School.
To mark the World Book and Copyright Day celebrations, every year,
we have 'Archies Day'
and Reading session - open for all children at
Swagat to promote Reading activities and
enhance literacy skills. However, this year, as the
Library is under rennovation, we
encourage children to visit
Archie Website to find Characters, games, fun stuff, etc. and
also follow online Projects.
This World Book Day, grab a book, share a book and I am sure, you
will love to be
literature savvy at Kidsfreesouls as I keep adding more
profiles to the Literature Index. Read
my Amazon.com Reviews and buy great
books too. Enjoy.
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2010
July
Project - Rupee
Robot Teachers or robotic teaching?
Sports Spirit - honing skills
June
Soul curry for kids - Kidsfreesouls in Simply Gujarat, India
Today
World Music Day - songs for children
Making connections: Kiss-Keep it simple stupid!
Theme a Party
Back to School:Create a Genius in your Child
Teaching syllabus is boring? Follow Projects
May
Idealistic, romantic and realistic : Walt Whitman
Sherlock Holmes - a Different Character?
Who loves broken marriages? They're made in Heaven...
Learning to write poetry or a story in few session...
Cop 15 failure and future progress on climate - tr...
April
International Dance Day : Sun sign Dancing
Shakespeare - World Book Day
Friedrich Froebel's system of Education - Kinderga...
Health concerns on World Health Day
Dare to Dream, you reach the stars if not the Moon...
Childhood stories - Hans Christian Andersen
March
The Woods are Lovely, dark and deep, And I have pr...
This week in environment: Healthy snacks for kids ...
In Environment:Plug in Prius and on Snow removal
Women's day - Equal rights, equal opportunities, P...
Dr Seuss 'Cat in the Hat'
Code Red - Holi is shrugging off evil....
February
203rd Birthday of Henry Longfellow followed by Hol...
Climate Change
Make your child Stress Free - Parent Stress,Kids S...
Traffic Congestion
That's what friends are for, In good times, In bad...
Sidney Sheldon - How he met his wife
Valentine's day - explore....
Acts of Kindness - Randomly
'Just Like Abraham Lincoln' - Book for kids
BT Brinjal and Env concerns on food thrown away in...
Charles Dickens, a journalist
Kids Book Recommendations and more on Books
Mind is a thought factory - We are prisoners of our thoughts
January
Managing a good Classroom - child
Alice in Wonderland : Literature Projects
Do nitrogent enriched gasoline create additional p...
Robert Burns and the new year song Auld Lang Syne
Creative sundays, better mondays!
Haiti Earthquake Aftermath
The fear phobia in kids - Aftermath Earthquake
Green clean vehicle
Send messages - Happy Uttarayan
Television and kids - Harmful effects
Spare quality time - break communication gap...
My mind is like a racing engine
A new beginning 2010 - Stay tuned
2009
December
Farewell 2009....welcome 2010
Faith
A Happy Christmas Holidays....
November
COP15 - United Nations Climate Change Conference
Toast your life with 'Thanksgiving' - Never late!
Comics Project for Kids
Sun Signs and
daily/weekly forecasts
What A Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong -
Lyrics
Sesame street celebrating 40 years-Chamki
spreadin...
Barbie - Toys R fun
October
Happy Halloween, Dev Diwali
Official Gujarat State Portal
Diwali and New Year Significance
Nobel Prize for Peace
Bloggers Unite - Make the Change!
Wolf Hall wins - Countdown ends!
Man Booker Prize - Countdown
begins..
Banned Books: Read, Speak, Be Aware
Mahatma Gandhi - Truth and non
violence
September
Vote for Ideas - Say Happy Birthday
Google and joi...
Kidoz - For Setting Parenting
Controls
Energy Star
Pen mightier than Keyboard?
September 18 - NYT and Guardian of
Angels
Ozone Day - 16th September
Television viewing and Kids
Environment concerns - Kids and
'climate change'
9/11 : Obama proclaims Patriot Day
and National Da...
Creative writing
Join Kidsfreesouls mission to
promote Literacy
Kids Health & Resources
Happy Teacher's Day
I learn, you learn, we learn
September events - Birthdays and
celebrations!
August
Doodle4Google - My India!
Mood swings? Take a Break!
Go Green - Build Roof Top Gardens
and read Judith ...
Happy Independence Day
Happy Janmashtmi
Rabindranath forgotten??? Samsung
Star 3 G
July
August Projects and Friendship
Month!
Cars can be modified to run on
water!
Total Solar Eclipse images and find
profile of Ber...
Moon Landing on 20th July 1969 &
Total Solar Eclip...
Global Warming & Gujarat
Hands-on-parenting
Green Revolution - Earth Talk
Science is Fun, Maths is Rocking!!!
Kids Blogs & Reading
Sesame : Virtual games
June
Kidsfreesouls Interview on Your
Story
Michael Jackson - Heal The World
Let Kids Grow Gracefully
Father's Day - 21st June
Setting parenting controls
World Environment Day - Aesop's
Birthday!
May
Shy Kids, follow Kidsfreesouls tips
Google 'Doodle' Vote for kids
Edward Lear's Limericks & How to
write Poetry!
Rabindranath Tagore!
Tips to set right mood swings of
kids
April
Yoga - Change4Life
World Book and Copyright Day
Earth Day 2009
Literacy and Creativity in Summer
Vacation
Online Poll for Nasa's greatest hits
for Earth beg...
Friedrich Froebel-Kindergarten
system
Summer Projects, Titanic info
Easter
World Health Day
Summer Vacation - Activities and fun
time
We are the World - with subtitles
March
Examination Tips
Gandhiji's Salt Satyagraha and 12th
March!
Barbie's Birthday Celebration
February
(8)
Grimms - Amazon reviews; added Links
Page
Literature Learning: Profiles and
Project tips
Top Blogs on web - If My Blog died
today..what wou...
Act of Kindness - Randomly
Explore Valentine Pages - Kids
Valentine Project
Internet Bus Project and Doodle 4
Google
Dental Hygiene Month - Calendar and
Projects for F...
Stuttering/Stammering
January
(11)
'Abide with me' - Beating Retreat
and Martyr's Day...
Listen to Aishwarya - Allah tero
Naam Lyrics
Jan 27, Lewis Caroll (Alice in
Wonderland) Born. F...
GCCI, Aishwarya, Tanvi Vyas and
Minister Maya
Kodn...
Obama - Perfect Family!
Kite festival, music and Kids
Happy Uttarayan
Don't Worry, Be Happy!
Sun Sign Character Traits and number
reading
Phishing scams in Twitter and
Facebook too!
Social networking and Kids!
2008
(141)
December
(8)
Happy New Year - Farewell 2008,
Welcome 2009
Midnight mass pics - Educate kids
and stop child l...
Merry Christmas - I Believe!
Spiritual Wisdom in Kids and How to
Tithe
Imagine Peace! Lessons on Anti
Terrorism and Peace...
Educator Links
Computer Literacy and Kids Projects
'Can Kids Teac...
Never too Late! World Aids Day
November
(7)
Protect kids from crime, stop them
to be criminals...
Saying 'Thank You' & helping kids to
write Thank y...
Family Reading Report and Kids
Reading
Children's Day with Kidsfreesouls
Picture Gallery
'How much do children know about
Politics? Guide w...
Barrack Hussein Obama : Change has
come to America...
Times of India founded as Bombay
Times and JC in N...
October
Diwali and Creativity with Rangoli
Unleash Creativity
September
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May
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February
January
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