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Feed the Brain. A good brain for learning develops strong and widespread neural highways that can quickly and efficiently assign different aspects of a task to the most efficient system.. Such efficiency is developed only by active practice in thinking and learning which, in turn, builds increasingly stronger connections. A growing suspicion among brain researchers is that excessive television viewing may affect the development of these kinds of connections. Children who watch more television or play video games, have the tendency to be hyperactive, impulsive, reactive and pose for Attention Disorders in school. Let the kids form the Reading habits. Encourage them to be self-esteemed, self controlled and tolerant. Let them flow the speech of innocence. Motivate and instill faith. Feel the angels, invest the time, protect the kids from ‘Crime’ Editor - Freesouls & Kidsfreesouls
PEACE
LESSON FOR KIDS | Guardian
of Angels - Peace is at your Doorstep Have you ever thought that kids are the silent observers and respond faster to the environmental influence surrounding them? Drugs, Kidnapping, Stealing, Beating, bullying, sexual abusing, violence are the many things that threaten crime calling for alarm signals. Early influences play lasting roles in lives of kids. There has been a new light on bad habits that shape their character. Cigarette addicts, drug addicts, alcohol addicts, chewing tobacco or being spendthrift - Any kind of vices adopted are almost influenced from their nearest surrounding. Children watch out and are sensitively alert to the happenings that take place. There is a constant interplay of mental faculties with the hearing, seeing, speaking and thinking capabilities that nurture their growth. Spontaneous reactions flick the unconscious messages of their Body language as we observe when we see kids pumped up with emotion when watching a television or playing games. They experience thrills, ecstasy, fear and even horror, extremes explainable when one observes in a Pop concert hall. Children are prone to anxiety, fear complex, being introvert and lurk at the edge of consciousness, arousing guilt and stirring up old fears of being punished and rejected. Often such kids slowly and gradually develop a complex that makes up from small lies to bigger ones leading to crime in extreme cases. Kids grow up in a contemporary society which calls for an ever increasing ability to endure anxiety, overcome doubts, tolerate tension, resolve conflicts, reduce frustrations, manage stress and avoid peer and external pressures. Most people roll their eyes at the memory of a hedious kid and his boorish parent. Setting the stage of change is important to build the pillars of Character from the very start. In a rush of new age, the busy parental influence misses the warmth of their tender touch to the kids who demand attention and motivation. Some care to nurture their potentialities sorting to enhance their creative abilities along with educational follow-ups. However, they miss out the very basics of ‘Character ethics’ and ‘value-based education’. Aspects of ethics is Commitment to do what is right, good and proper, is almost overlooked. Model the ethical beliefs to cultivate in the kids with truthfulness. Many parents adopt the attitude that my child is right-wrong with overwhelming results. Parents who can’t accept their child as a topper, often mislead to blame the teacher. Sometimes, instead of punishing the child for violating the school policy, they challenge the school policy! Kids often react with attitudinal behavior with friends of lower income families. They smooth sail with equal status and abuse the other saying 'You are not invited for the party and so you have to stay back' or while playing say 'You stand last in the line and my best friend will be next to me' If the parents become demanding, aggressive or rude at the slightest provocation, the child would adopt to create wrong notions and react to situations. Parents need to be vigilant in their own speech and actions so as not to hear the things or acts they do, performed by the kids in longer run. Rude behavior in the kids is the result of thoughtlessness than of aggressive behavior. Parents and elders need to stand by the kids to built their characters, eventually pull them out from committing crime or lest, even be a victim thereby. Internet media has made a ‘free way’ for crimes on the net. With Safe surfing sites (click http://www.kidsfreesouls.com/ - Rated Safe surf), kids can surf to safe surfing in an increasing alarming Internet crime leading to kids astray. The many exciting chat rooms, messenger chats and cell phone mania, teenagers prone to be addicts of telephonitis, netizen buffs or freak outs without realizing the inappropriate bills involved for such activities. The victims of puzzling Criminal behavior Over the years, legend of Bonnie and Clyde turned the pair into heroic Robin hood. They were pretty thieves who robbed small banks, grocery stores and killed innocent people on whim. Incorrigible, amoral and reckless, they were finally gunned down by the law in 1934. White collar offences are overlooked by law too as motives behind most crimes might even be thought of as normal in the sense that they are basic human urges such as : greed, lust, rage, a craving for excitement. Trouble arise when people allow these urges to stray beyond the bounds set by the society laws. Mob violence is one example what psychologists call mass hysteria. Existed feelings vent way and herd mentality exist.Religious, political, sports or entertainment are examples. Why do these things happen? How are kids affected? In such event of happenings, the child is a silent observer and the brain cells has their thinking capacities to reflect to the situations and surroundings. This is a tricky time to protect kids from Crime. Necessarily, protecting from crime – from being kidnapped, raped, humiliated, bullied, rejected, being addict to drug, alcohol or vices and on other fronts, protecting them from being Criminal minds. Some movies that show the real things happening like ‘Company’ where Gang wars are showed, movies like ‘Ankhen’ where Bank Robbery takes place, it’s the alert signal for a parental to be ready for a feedback to the young mind who may sense out the message in a negative influence. An Italian Criminologist, Cesare Lombrose theorized that most criminals arise mainly from environmental conditions such as urban pressures, poverty and a poor home life. Kids, especially Teenagers who are negativistic, destructive, aggressive and delinquent have strong influence on others trapped under their unhealthy murkiness attitude. Teach the kids to live out. Teach yourself to survive too. Build the basics and build them strong to protect kids from Crime – to stop them from being criminals. PROTECT FROM CRIMEProtecting kids from crime is a major issue in foreign countries. In India, the Delhi based missingkids.com links to many kids all over India who have become victims of crime, being kidnapped at a tender age. As you see the innocent faces at www.sambhaav.com/freesouls.htm (page removed now), one would realize the urgency to protect the kids from the Crime. The triggered crime assault shoot up with the kidnapping, drug and alcohol kind of vices. Investing time in development of kids is a factor which should not be overlooked. Frank communication, being on friendly terms, caring and teaching the basic of how to say no, cautioning them while talking to strangers, safety measures at school and friends influence are the many factors to be taken care of. Kids get attracted to rosy things and the hard way of earning bread-butter should be taught to them to stop them from stealing. If some kid buys a costly pair of shoes or shows off having money on hand, the influence should not flicker the other kid demanding the same. The kid should be taught to realize his way of living. Some kids who are deprived of love, as they grow to be teenagers, out of deprival or due to adolescent instincts indulge in sexual crimes. These situations pose for calling attention and early influential attitude of parents and elders make kids to overcome criminal situations. Stop the Crime – It’s in our hands. The Mob frenzy recently in Gujarat has directly or indirectly made many kids the victims of Crime – Stop them being Criminals too! Let the Community flare influence last no long as they tremble in fear, shatter their faith and live in a state of anxiety with the environmental influence upon them. Let there be the right Parental influence, after all!
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